WhatsNew

WhatsNew

What’s New? 20 April, 2018 All Things Tami Divorce Insights Just over a year after my ex-husband left, I had the first milestone event with my former family. It was my nephew’s wedding. It would be a huge understatement if I told you seeing some of the family...
skeletons

skeletons

Dem Bones, Dem Bones 13 April, 2018 All Things Tami Divorce Insights If you were married a long time and close to your ex’s family and friends, chances are you got to be pretty familiar with closets full of skeletons – all those carefully hidden secrets no one...
YouCanDoIt

YouCanDoIt

Let’s Do This! 30 March, 2018 All Things Tami The Next Chapter Divorce Insights It’s time to sharpen our pencils and start the next chapter… For me, that means moving from writing about my divorce journey & post divorce life to expanding into...
Mechanic

Mechanic

Help! I need a Mechanic! 23 March, 2018 All Things Tami Divorce Insights I always fancied myself a capable woman when the mechanical things around me broke down. I might not have been the best cook or housekeeper when I was married, but when it came to building,...
Alone

Alone

Anybody Out There? 16 March, 2018 All Things Tami Divorce Insights Last week I celebrated my 49th birthday – the final year of my 4th decade on this planet. Birthdays are always a time of reflection for me. This one hit me pretty hard. Especially since I never...
Family Tree

Family Tree

Fell the Family Tree? 23 February, 2018 All Things Tami Divorce Insights I remember asking my ex-husband if I would still be able to go to all the family gatherings after we were divorced. I don’t know why, but I actually thought I would still be a part of the clan...
Memories

Memories

So Many Memories 16 February, 2018 All Things Tami Divorce Insights When I was leaving what was formerly known as my happy home, my ex-husband told me to take whatever I wanted on moving day. I wasn’t very good with the definition of “whatever,” and...
Closure

Closure

Does Closure Exist? 9 FEBRUARY, 2018 All Things Tami Divorce Insights “You mean he can just walk away from our marriage and not tell me why?” This was a question I asked my therapist several times during the initial stages of my divorce. And, I’ll...
Buddy System

Buddy System

Hey, Buddy! 12 JANUARY, 2018 All Things Tami Team Tami The Buddy System. It’s defined by Merriam-Webster as “an arrangement in which two individuals are paired (as for mutual safety in a hazardous situation).” Wikipedia describes it as “a...
Divorce Month

Divorce Month

January is Divorce Month 8 JANUARY, 2018 All Things Tami Divorce Insights A sad fact: more divorces occur in January than any other month. If you find yourself a part of this unfortunate club, there is help. The digital version of my divorce survival guide Becoming...